Ask Dr. Van Pelt


Today we will continue our discussion on Narcissistic Personality Disorder.
As we learned last week, the narcissistic patient generally portrays himself as someone they are not. These delusions of grandeur may manifest themselves in the form of alter ego personalities (like that of a political consultant or the editor of a review) that are far more interesting than the personae that the patient actually possesses (failed businessman).
A key factor in the diagnosis of the narcissistic patient may involve an examination of their past efforts. Do they have failed marriages and business ventures? Did they complete their education?
Many factors can contirbute to narcissistic behavior:

Overvaluation as a child by adults

Valued by parents as a means to regulate their own self-esteem

Excessive self-admiration that is never balanced with realistic feedback

Unpredictable or unreliable caregiving from adults

Severe emotional abuse

Self-praise for perceived exceptional looks or talents

Learning manipulative behaviors from others

In future sessions, we will further examine the causes and treatment of this disabling mental illness